Our Children Will Never Cherish the Gospel if They’re Not Sickened by the Ugliness of their Own Sinfulness
This week is our last in the book of Psalms as a church. I thought I’d bring our attention to some new books out by Carine Mackenzie. The latest books in the “Bible Alive” series for ages 4-11 are David the Shepherd, David the Soldier, David the Fugitive, and David the King. This is an addition of four little books to her “Bible Alive” series, which already includes six Jesus titles and four Moses titles. Each of the books engages children as the stories are retold from key biblical texts. A distinctive of the series is its strong focus on salvation. In David the Shepherd children learn lessons of courage, and in David the Soldier, about trusting God in times of waiting. David the Fugitive tells of God’s faithfulness and David the King presents God’s forgiveness. These are great resources for talking to your kids about the man behind many of the psalms.
I received a complimentary copy of David and the King from Christian Focus as part of the book blog tour. This did not affect my opinion of the book in one way or another.
Sojourn’s Student and Family Ministry is offering class for children and their parents called “Ask Class: For Kids & Parents with Questions about Salvation & Baptism.” The goal is to answer the questions of kids and their parents who are seeking to understand the gospel, salvation, baptism, and assurance. We want to partner with parents, who have been commanded to teach their kids about God. The class will be led by Pastors Jared Kennedy and Gary Almon. Our hope is that this class will be a catalyst for more gospel conversations between parents and their children. The two-week class is on March 21st & 28th during the 11:00 AM service at the Midtown Campus, The 930 Art Center, on the third floor. The first session will cover issues related to Jesus and salvation. The second session will cover issues related to baptism and assurance. Continue Reading…
If you haven’t had a chance to look over the materials presented by Mark Prater and Andy Farmer on Children’s and Student Ministry at Sojourn’s 2009 Counseling & The Church Conference, you should take a look. This session sought to answer the following questions: What is the role of the local church in coming alongside of parents as they seek to raise their children? How should theology drive the ministry structures and the methods used in serving parents in your family ministry? Parents often feel helpless and alone in raising their children from birth through the teen years, so the church must step up and serve a crucial role in coming alongside parents. In these tracks, Mark and Andy looked at how parents are equipped to help their children and teens understand and live out the gospel with the help of their local church community. Mark and Andy are pastors at Covenant Fellowship in Glen Mills, PA.
Good goals can easily become ultimate goals and therefore unbiblical goals. The most natural expression of the unbiblical goals we have for our kids is our desire to see them succeed. We want our kids to be successful so they can live peaceful lives that are filled with opportunity and guarded from pain, loss, tragedy, and suffering. We strive for our kids to succeed because we rightly recognize that the soil in which our kids are raised has much to do with future success.
The goals about to be discussed are not evil in and of themselves. In fact, most of the goals below can be good goals if they do not become ultimate goals. It is when we put the goal of making our kids successful above the goal of equipping our children to know and enjoy God that we need to reevaluate the goals we have for our children.
(1) Kids with Skillz: The goal is to enlist children in as many activities (athletic, artistic, musical, etc.) as time may (or may not) allow.
- Do I measure my success by the number of activities in which my kids are involved?
- Do I measure my child’s success by the number of skills she has mastered?
- Do I measure my child’s success by his mastery of any one skill or ability?
(2) Psychologically Adjusted Kids: The goals for the psychological adjustment of children often drift according to the pop psychology of the day. These goals may include building self-esteem, training kids to be effective with people, or perhaps raising kids who are not spoiled.
- Do I measure my success by how closely I align myself with a particular method of parenting?
- Do I measure my child’s success by how much he esteems himself or how much he esteems others? Continue Reading…